Last night was our second night of the gentlemen sleeping in their big beds. This was something we had been planning on for a while for a few reasons. First of all, with the baby coming in a few months, we need the crib. And secondly, they've demonstrated that getting out of their beds was getting steadily easier. The straw that broke the camel's back was on Thursday night when they successfully climbed out of their cribs three times in a row, proving to us that it was no longer a lucky escape but rather a new "fun" skill.
We had already purchased the new twin mattresses, so on Friday, with all kinds of excitement, we set up their new big boy beds! They were so stinkin' excited about the whole thing. Something new to play with and discover! That being the case our first night was a bit of a struggle.
They went to bed at 7:00 as normal, following their usual bedtime routine. We have a video monitor in their room so Jason stood outside their door and clearly laid down the expectation that it was bed time and they needed to stay in their own beds. It took only six tries or so before they got the picture and finally went to sleep.
The rest of the night was what we expected. They switched beds a few times, rolled off the edge (the mattresses are on the floor at this point) and were, not surprisingly, confused by the new arrangement. Jason said he went in at 1:00 am and put M back in his bed. At 4:00 am, I woke up to the sound of them throwing their stuffed animals and hitting the walls. It took me until about 5:00 am to get them to go back to sleep. Then they were up and ready to play at about 6:30. So yeah, not a great night for anyone in our home.
Nap time yesterday wasn't much better. We put them down at 1:00 pm, much later than their usual 11:00 am nap time thinking they'd just pass out. No such luck. It took about 40 minutes of going back in their room, putting them back in bed, explaining the expectation that it was nap time before they finally gave in.
So, the combination of a not so good Friday night combined with a less than stellar nap on Saturday meant they were crazy cranky for the rest of the day. Yeah, that was fun... But thankfully, last night, they went to bed at 7:30 and after only I think 3 reminders passed out. Best part was that we didn't hear a peep from them until I went in at 7:15 this morning and actually had to wake them up to get ready for church! Score.
It's currently 1:30 on Sunday, and they've been napping since noon! Jason only had to remind them twice before they went to sleep. *Sigh of relief* With all the horror stories you hear about transitioning from cribs, I was honestly kind of intimidated by this step, especially in light of all the other changes I've shared recently. But really, I'm feeling pretty good about this! Sure, there will be rough nights ahead of us, but it doesn't seem impossible anymore.
One little tip: I saw an idea on Pinterest for using pool noodles under the sheets to help keep them on the beds. I went to the store and bought some yesterday and last night (and now as they nap) they seem to be doing the trick! Gotta love Pinterest.
Sunday, July 20, 2014
Wednesday, July 16, 2014
Pearly whites!
The gentlemen had their second ever dentist appointment this morning. They both did great! The only problem that arose was their thumb/finger sucking habits are causing problems with their teeth. Boo! T sucks his pointer and middle fingers, and M sucks his thumb. It's interesting to see how sucking the different fingers is actually affecting their teeth differently. For the life of me I can't remember what she called the misalignments, but I could definitely see what she was talking about when I looked into their mouths.
Her suggestion was to get my hands on this special fingernail polish that tastes gross so they just don't want to suck their fingers. I decided that first, I'd rather work on being consistent with reminders. "Boys no sucking on your fingers, please!"
We went to the grocery store after their appointment, which put them way past their nap time. So the usual pattern would be that they fall asleep in the car. But that pattern also involves assuming the position. T's fingers go straight in his mouth and he tugs on his ear with his other hand. M's thumb goes straight in. They seemed confused by me asking them to not suck on their fingers and ended up staying awake the entire ride home because of it. Selfish me was actually fine with that because if they do fall asleep in the car, once we get home they refuse to continue napping and we end up with a very rough afternoon. As soon as we got home, both boys went down for a nice long nap. And I'm sure they sucked on their beloved fingers as soon as I shut the door. But we have to start somewhere.
In our home, we're of the mindset that we'd like to nurture their behaviors around listening to us before resorting to outside measures (special nail polish, bribery, etc...). I'm not saying we're perfect. We have resorted to those kinds of thing with different scenarios, but it's not our first line of defense. It seems to be paying off too! In general our boys are good listeners, have a decent grasp of right/wrong and I'm not often dealing with screaming public tantrums. We have our moments. They are two after all. But for our family this parenting method seems to be working.
So we'll see. I'll share our results as they unfold (along with everything else we're changing in their lives).
Her suggestion was to get my hands on this special fingernail polish that tastes gross so they just don't want to suck their fingers. I decided that first, I'd rather work on being consistent with reminders. "Boys no sucking on your fingers, please!"
We went to the grocery store after their appointment, which put them way past their nap time. So the usual pattern would be that they fall asleep in the car. But that pattern also involves assuming the position. T's fingers go straight in his mouth and he tugs on his ear with his other hand. M's thumb goes straight in. They seemed confused by me asking them to not suck on their fingers and ended up staying awake the entire ride home because of it. Selfish me was actually fine with that because if they do fall asleep in the car, once we get home they refuse to continue napping and we end up with a very rough afternoon. As soon as we got home, both boys went down for a nice long nap. And I'm sure they sucked on their beloved fingers as soon as I shut the door. But we have to start somewhere.
In our home, we're of the mindset that we'd like to nurture their behaviors around listening to us before resorting to outside measures (special nail polish, bribery, etc...). I'm not saying we're perfect. We have resorted to those kinds of thing with different scenarios, but it's not our first line of defense. It seems to be paying off too! In general our boys are good listeners, have a decent grasp of right/wrong and I'm not often dealing with screaming public tantrums. We have our moments. They are two after all. But for our family this parenting method seems to be working.
So we'll see. I'll share our results as they unfold (along with everything else we're changing in their lives).
Monday, July 14, 2014
Recap of our birthing class: "VBAC your way"
When we welcomed our gentlemen into the world in May, 2012, it did not exactly go as planned and it all culminated in having a crash c-section to deliver Mikah safely. That experience has left serious emotional scars for both myself and Jason. Back in December, when I found out that I was pregnant again, one of the first things I did was relived their birthday and had anxiety about the idea of giving birth again.
A few weeks back, I was at my midwife appointment with the lovely Louisa Whales and she asked if we had planned on any kind of birthing classes. When I said I hadn't really given it much thought, she said there was an awesome doula in Seattle named Sharon Muza who taught an awesome class called, "VBAC your way". Our plan is to have baby girl in a hospital with midwives attending. Our hope is that I'll be in the 70% bracket of women who have a successful VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean). And with baby girl being the little rock star she's been so far, I'm feeling very confident that all will go just fine. Nonetheless, because of our previous traumatic experience, I decided to sign us up for the class.
It was kind of a big commitment because the class was in Ballard at 9:00 am and we live a good 90 minutes away. When you throw our twins into the mix, we asked Jason's parents if they would be willing to take the boys overnight so we could relax a bit and not have to travel super early on Saturday. They happily obliged and we were able to go on a date! Seeing as the last overnight we had without the boys there was last July, it was awesome.
Saturday morning, we got up at our usual time sans the boys calling for us from the other room (so peaceful). We got all packed and ready, had a surprisingly edible continental breakfast and headed for Ballard. Traffic was nonexistent so we got to our destination with 30 minutes to spare and decided to grab coffee and a pastry at the bakery we saw across the street. If ever you're in Ballard, Larson's bakery is worth the stop! It's a well established Danish bakery with cases packed with both sweet and savory treats. And the coffee was pretty darn tasty too. : ) The best part of this place for us was the fact that there weren't two little boys with us so we were able to fully sit and enjoy some quality people watching.
I looked at my clock and saw that it was probably time for us to head to class so we packed up and walked down the street to the building. We weren't exactly sure where to enter, but thankfully spotted another couple in front of us with a very pregnant mama and followed them to the entrance.
The class was held in a cozy well lit room that thankfully had a working air conditioner. Seeing as it hit 90 that day, we were all thankful for that. The session started with all the couples introducing themselves. Amazingly enough, one of the dads said he grew up in a small town in MN. When I said that I did too and asked him where he was from, he said, "Mankato". We looked to be about the same age, so it's likely we know some of the same people, but we were never able to chat about that, so it'll remain a mystery. Even still, small world!
In an effort to finish this post and have time to get my chores done, here's an overview of the topics and activities that the class covered.
A few weeks back, I was at my midwife appointment with the lovely Louisa Whales and she asked if we had planned on any kind of birthing classes. When I said I hadn't really given it much thought, she said there was an awesome doula in Seattle named Sharon Muza who taught an awesome class called, "VBAC your way". Our plan is to have baby girl in a hospital with midwives attending. Our hope is that I'll be in the 70% bracket of women who have a successful VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean). And with baby girl being the little rock star she's been so far, I'm feeling very confident that all will go just fine. Nonetheless, because of our previous traumatic experience, I decided to sign us up for the class.
It was kind of a big commitment because the class was in Ballard at 9:00 am and we live a good 90 minutes away. When you throw our twins into the mix, we asked Jason's parents if they would be willing to take the boys overnight so we could relax a bit and not have to travel super early on Saturday. They happily obliged and we were able to go on a date! Seeing as the last overnight we had without the boys there was last July, it was awesome.
Saturday morning, we got up at our usual time sans the boys calling for us from the other room (so peaceful). We got all packed and ready, had a surprisingly edible continental breakfast and headed for Ballard. Traffic was nonexistent so we got to our destination with 30 minutes to spare and decided to grab coffee and a pastry at the bakery we saw across the street. If ever you're in Ballard, Larson's bakery is worth the stop! It's a well established Danish bakery with cases packed with both sweet and savory treats. And the coffee was pretty darn tasty too. : ) The best part of this place for us was the fact that there weren't two little boys with us so we were able to fully sit and enjoy some quality people watching.
I looked at my clock and saw that it was probably time for us to head to class so we packed up and walked down the street to the building. We weren't exactly sure where to enter, but thankfully spotted another couple in front of us with a very pregnant mama and followed them to the entrance.
The class was held in a cozy well lit room that thankfully had a working air conditioner. Seeing as it hit 90 that day, we were all thankful for that. The session started with all the couples introducing themselves. Amazingly enough, one of the dads said he grew up in a small town in MN. When I said that I did too and asked him where he was from, he said, "Mankato". We looked to be about the same age, so it's likely we know some of the same people, but we were never able to chat about that, so it'll remain a mystery. Even still, small world!
In an effort to finish this post and have time to get my chores done, here's an overview of the topics and activities that the class covered.
- We all shared our cesarean birth stories. Lots of tears and pain for sure! It was comforting to have others who could truly sympathize.
- Went over the 6 stages of Labor
- Lamase care practices
- Labor simulation involving a bowl of ice and experimenting with coping techniques. That was probably on of our favorite/most useful parts.
- VBAC statistics: putting it into perspective.
- Sharing fears and concerns about our upcoming labor/deliveries.
- Exercises to assist in getting baby into an ideal birthing position.
- Techniques to help with back labor (counter pressure, asymmetrical movement, using a Rebozo)
- Ace in the hole positions for pushing.
It was a great class! We both left feeling empowered with a clear idea of the direction we are going as we prepare for baby girl's arrival. She gave us so many tools to pull from and for that I will be forever grateful. Most of what she said could be taken out of a book, but her passion combined with her knowledge and experience gave the information so much more weight and I know I'll have her voice pop in my head when I come to those moments of self doubt.
There were a few big "Aha!" moments for me.
- Don't get fixated on one stage of Labor! There's more to it than dilation.
- When it comes to childbirth, you're going to get there. One way or another, you're going to get there.
- DEP: When in labor, Drink, Eat and Pee constantly.
- I'm an adult and can make my own decisions when it comes to my care.
- Eating 6 dates/day in the final weeks of pregnancy will make you less likely to go overdue.
- The heaviest part of the baby is the back of the head so use gravity and get yourself upright!
One other story to share from the class was there was a study done in three major hospitals (can't recall where) that did an experiment and removed all the beds from their labor & delivery rooms. They filled them with birthing balls, a birthing stool, a rocking chair and an assortment of other birthing tools. At any time if the mother wanted to have her bed, it was brought to her swiftly. No questions. If she wanted any other medical interventions, they were made readily available. But the result of this experiment was not so surprisingly that these hospitals experienced a lower c-section rate, fewer interventions and all around much more satisfied and happy mothers/families. So Sharon's advice to us was that when we got to the hospital, to spread our stuff out on the bed. It's a great place to see everything we brought easily! I thought that was a great piece of advice.
Sharon was great! I'd recommend her class to anyone.
Wednesday, July 9, 2014
Let the potty training begin?
Potty training...I've never met a parent that those words brought excitement and glee. It seems that like everything in parenthood you just have to wing it. I know there are many schools of thought on this topic, but ultimately it's a journey unique to every family. Thankfully, I've always been a 'just wing it' kind of gal.
We'd been talking about potty training before baby girl arrives because the thought of diapering three at once just sounded like a crazy notion. But as my due date approaches, I was starting to think that perhaps this was going to be future parents' problem. However it seems our gentlemen have their own ideas. And who knows. Maybe they'll be potty training superstars that just do it! That would be amazing...a girl can dream.
Nonetheless, about two weeks ago, they started displaying more of those readiness cues talked about by the experts. Before bedtime, Tristan started asking to go sit on the potty. He sits there, with my hands supporting him for about ten seconds. Studies his man parts for a bit and then, "all done!" Both boys have been doing this now. It's pretty cute, but I would love if they actually did something while they sat there.
Our other new development is the urge to remove all of their clothing, diaper included. It started during nap/bed time. We'd find them naked in their cribs with soaked sheets. Gross! Our first solution was a rather ingenious suggestion by a seasoned parent and friend of mine. She suggested we cut the feet off our footy pajamas and put them on backwards so they couldn't access the zipper. Worked like a charm! But then they started stripping during the day. And then two days ago we had our first poopie party. Thankfully those messes were rather contained, but still, not a happy mommy.
So today we got them their very own potties. I made a huge deal about opening up the box they arrived in and it took no time for the boys to figure out what they were for. Within a few minutes they were asking me to take off their diaper. I thought, "This is great! Yes! You two are just going to figure it out all by yourself, aren't you?" We spent a good 10 minutes sitting, then standing, then picking up their potties and moving them to a new position, then sitting again. Sadly it didn't last. When the initial excitement wore off and they started seeing them more as toys, I put them away and we had dinner. After dinner, we tried again. This was about 15 minutes after they'd finished eating, so I was hoping their bladders might be full. But alas, nothing happened. They like sitting on them though, and I'll take that as Step 1!
My plan for potty training is to slowly introduce the concept this week and then really start pushing it next week. They both really like stickers, so I'm going to make charts for them. They'll get a little sticker for sitting on the potty, and a big sticker for doing something. I also want to make a big deal about personalizing their potties so they have a sense of ownership and individuality. We're learning the alphabet right now, so seeing their T and M on their own potty might get them excited. Another idea that sounded good to me was getting egg timers to add to the excitement of going potty at regular intervals. Sounds good to me!
All in all, I have no idea if any/all of this will work or if it's a bunch of total bologna, but I have to start somewhere. I'll keep you all posted.
We'd been talking about potty training before baby girl arrives because the thought of diapering three at once just sounded like a crazy notion. But as my due date approaches, I was starting to think that perhaps this was going to be future parents' problem. However it seems our gentlemen have their own ideas. And who knows. Maybe they'll be potty training superstars that just do it! That would be amazing...a girl can dream.
Nonetheless, about two weeks ago, they started displaying more of those readiness cues talked about by the experts. Before bedtime, Tristan started asking to go sit on the potty. He sits there, with my hands supporting him for about ten seconds. Studies his man parts for a bit and then, "all done!" Both boys have been doing this now. It's pretty cute, but I would love if they actually did something while they sat there.
Our other new development is the urge to remove all of their clothing, diaper included. It started during nap/bed time. We'd find them naked in their cribs with soaked sheets. Gross! Our first solution was a rather ingenious suggestion by a seasoned parent and friend of mine. She suggested we cut the feet off our footy pajamas and put them on backwards so they couldn't access the zipper. Worked like a charm! But then they started stripping during the day. And then two days ago we had our first poopie party. Thankfully those messes were rather contained, but still, not a happy mommy.
So today we got them their very own potties. I made a huge deal about opening up the box they arrived in and it took no time for the boys to figure out what they were for. Within a few minutes they were asking me to take off their diaper. I thought, "This is great! Yes! You two are just going to figure it out all by yourself, aren't you?" We spent a good 10 minutes sitting, then standing, then picking up their potties and moving them to a new position, then sitting again. Sadly it didn't last. When the initial excitement wore off and they started seeing them more as toys, I put them away and we had dinner. After dinner, we tried again. This was about 15 minutes after they'd finished eating, so I was hoping their bladders might be full. But alas, nothing happened. They like sitting on them though, and I'll take that as Step 1!
My plan for potty training is to slowly introduce the concept this week and then really start pushing it next week. They both really like stickers, so I'm going to make charts for them. They'll get a little sticker for sitting on the potty, and a big sticker for doing something. I also want to make a big deal about personalizing their potties so they have a sense of ownership and individuality. We're learning the alphabet right now, so seeing their T and M on their own potty might get them excited. Another idea that sounded good to me was getting egg timers to add to the excitement of going potty at regular intervals. Sounds good to me!
All in all, I have no idea if any/all of this will work or if it's a bunch of total bologna, but I have to start somewhere. I'll keep you all posted.
Monday, July 7, 2014
Transitioning from renter to owner.
Last October, we bought our first house, and ten months later, are still working on getting settled. I grew up in a somewhat nomadic family. We moved every 1-3 years because of my dad's work. And as far as I can remember, the only house my parents actually owned in my entire adolescence was in Arizona when I was five. So the permanence of owning property is a totally new experience.
I've always been someone who thrives on set parameters. So naturally, renting makes sense to me! When you rent, you're limited on decor, layout, even furniture because unless you have the time, creativity or financial means to completely change your surroundings with each move it's impractical. Living out of a suitcase? No problem! Planning and executing a closet remodel that fits your specific needs? Panic!
It's an uphill battle that I'm working on changing. And change it must! With the arrival of our baby girl in less than three months (Yikers!) we have a lot of home improvements that need to be addressed. Let's start with the gentlemen's room first.
On Wednesday, a lovely Amazon shipment will arrive with two twin mattresses, freeing up our crib for baby girl and ridding us of the fear of them hurting themselves climbing out of their beds. Once those are here, we have to address storage. Their dresser is also the changing table, which again will be moving to the nursery. They have a huge closet, which is awesome, but no real organization to speak of. I'm hoping to design it to be functional and praying it doesn't turn into pulling all the clothes within reach out of the closet every time they are alone in their room. We also plan on putting together a reading area. I made them big floor pillows for their birthday, and we just need to get the lumber to build them a set of shelves to proudly display their books.
Once that room is taken care of, we'll have to address the nursery. Currently, it is being used as Jason's office, my craft room and our music room. When all is said and done, it will be a well organized craft space for me and a peaceful pretty nursery for baby girl. One big problem...where do we put Jason's office and our instruments?
We're looking for outbuilding designs so Jason can have a quiet dedicated space to work from without three little ones underfoot. Whatever we decide to do, I'm not sure how quickly this project will happen because of the cost, but hopefully by next summer, he'll have a perfect space just for him. In the meantime? I'm not sure what's going to happen. Thankfully babies are small and pretty flexible about home decor.
When we start making progress, I'll share some before and after pictures. Fingers crossed it all goes well!
I've always been someone who thrives on set parameters. So naturally, renting makes sense to me! When you rent, you're limited on decor, layout, even furniture because unless you have the time, creativity or financial means to completely change your surroundings with each move it's impractical. Living out of a suitcase? No problem! Planning and executing a closet remodel that fits your specific needs? Panic!
It's an uphill battle that I'm working on changing. And change it must! With the arrival of our baby girl in less than three months (Yikers!) we have a lot of home improvements that need to be addressed. Let's start with the gentlemen's room first.
On Wednesday, a lovely Amazon shipment will arrive with two twin mattresses, freeing up our crib for baby girl and ridding us of the fear of them hurting themselves climbing out of their beds. Once those are here, we have to address storage. Their dresser is also the changing table, which again will be moving to the nursery. They have a huge closet, which is awesome, but no real organization to speak of. I'm hoping to design it to be functional and praying it doesn't turn into pulling all the clothes within reach out of the closet every time they are alone in their room. We also plan on putting together a reading area. I made them big floor pillows for their birthday, and we just need to get the lumber to build them a set of shelves to proudly display their books.
Once that room is taken care of, we'll have to address the nursery. Currently, it is being used as Jason's office, my craft room and our music room. When all is said and done, it will be a well organized craft space for me and a peaceful pretty nursery for baby girl. One big problem...where do we put Jason's office and our instruments?
We're looking for outbuilding designs so Jason can have a quiet dedicated space to work from without three little ones underfoot. Whatever we decide to do, I'm not sure how quickly this project will happen because of the cost, but hopefully by next summer, he'll have a perfect space just for him. In the meantime? I'm not sure what's going to happen. Thankfully babies are small and pretty flexible about home decor.
When we start making progress, I'll share some before and after pictures. Fingers crossed it all goes well!
Monday, June 30, 2014
Twins + one
Today I am 27w3d pregnant with a baby girl. If I carry her full term, our gentlemen will be 2 years and 4 months old when she arrives. Are we crazy? Nope. As someone who believes wholeheartedly in God being the one guiding and blessing my life she is exactly what our family needs! His timing might have caught us completely off guard. I may have sobbed uncontrollably for a solid two hours the day I found out I was pregnant. Was she planned. Not even a little. She is here because God knew she's just what our family needed.
For a long time I did day dream about having a third child and wondered how different carrying one baby would feel vs. twins. It's amazing! I am so small this time around. At this point in my twin pregnancy I was measuring full term. This time, I'm right on track. There's so much less pain. I'm sleeping well. My energy level is so much higher, and the list goes on. I'm sure if this was my first pregnancy I'd feel very different about things, but having the twins first has given me such a unique perspective. I'm not exaggerating when I say that this pregnancy is a piece of cake and I could do it again in a heartbeat! But then I remember that every pregnancy has it's own unique challenges, so I'm happy if baby girl is our final family member. It would be awesome to end our journey to parenthood on a high note.
She's my healer. Prior to the twins, we lost three babies to miscarriage. As God should design it, her due date is three days shy of exactly six years since we lost our first child. The first time I realized that it gave me the chills. It would be so beautiful to bring it all full circle.
This pregnancy has also been healing for us because of how "normal" it's been. My prenatal care has been on a normal schedule with absolutely no red flags to report thus far. It's the first pregnancy where I've truly been able to relax. My midwives have been such great cheerleaders and if all continues to go well, I'll be able to have this little one by VBAC. That being said, I'm content with however she decides to make her grand entrance.
The other main difference this time around is that I have two very active and curious little boys to attend to. They are great kids and when they act up, I simply remind myself that they're two and learning new boundaries every day. It's normal. So with them constantly underfoot, I often forget about baby girl gestating away in there. It's at night, or rather after the gentlemen go to bed, that I have my pregnant mommy time... If only there was a way to permanently imprint the feeling of a baby kicking you. It's so incredibly special.
I feel so incredibly blessed that I am getting the chance to be pregnant one more time. I'm thankful that I now fully understand the challenge of carrying twins really was. And I'm oh so glad this pregnancy is so far a textbook experience. I just pray that every day, I truly enjoy these things because I also know how fragile they are. Being a mother has always been my wish, but I've learned that it was never my choice or my timing. And might I add, I'm thankful there's someone else orchestrating things. He does a way better job than I could ever imagine.
For a long time I did day dream about having a third child and wondered how different carrying one baby would feel vs. twins. It's amazing! I am so small this time around. At this point in my twin pregnancy I was measuring full term. This time, I'm right on track. There's so much less pain. I'm sleeping well. My energy level is so much higher, and the list goes on. I'm sure if this was my first pregnancy I'd feel very different about things, but having the twins first has given me such a unique perspective. I'm not exaggerating when I say that this pregnancy is a piece of cake and I could do it again in a heartbeat! But then I remember that every pregnancy has it's own unique challenges, so I'm happy if baby girl is our final family member. It would be awesome to end our journey to parenthood on a high note.
She's my healer. Prior to the twins, we lost three babies to miscarriage. As God should design it, her due date is three days shy of exactly six years since we lost our first child. The first time I realized that it gave me the chills. It would be so beautiful to bring it all full circle.
This pregnancy has also been healing for us because of how "normal" it's been. My prenatal care has been on a normal schedule with absolutely no red flags to report thus far. It's the first pregnancy where I've truly been able to relax. My midwives have been such great cheerleaders and if all continues to go well, I'll be able to have this little one by VBAC. That being said, I'm content with however she decides to make her grand entrance.
The other main difference this time around is that I have two very active and curious little boys to attend to. They are great kids and when they act up, I simply remind myself that they're two and learning new boundaries every day. It's normal. So with them constantly underfoot, I often forget about baby girl gestating away in there. It's at night, or rather after the gentlemen go to bed, that I have my pregnant mommy time... If only there was a way to permanently imprint the feeling of a baby kicking you. It's so incredibly special.
I feel so incredibly blessed that I am getting the chance to be pregnant one more time. I'm thankful that I now fully understand the challenge of carrying twins really was. And I'm oh so glad this pregnancy is so far a textbook experience. I just pray that every day, I truly enjoy these things because I also know how fragile they are. Being a mother has always been my wish, but I've learned that it was never my choice or my timing. And might I add, I'm thankful there's someone else orchestrating things. He does a way better job than I could ever imagine.
Saturday, June 28, 2014
So I've been a little busy...
It's been a very busy and wonderful few years since I started (and failed to continue) this blog. We were blessed with healthy twin boys in 2012, upgraded to a bigger car, bought a house in the woods and it seems like we reinvent ourselves at every turn. But when you throw twins at first time parents, you have to! Being able to roll with the punches and adapt are more than a way of life. It's a way of survival.
I'm asked all the time about products we've found success with, schedules that work, and logistics in general. A few of my favorite/comical moments involve grocery shopping, feeding, hair cutting and taking them in public by myself. So I figured, now that life has normalized and I am a uber blessed stay at home mom, it's time to start writing down what I've experienced both for my future enjoyment as well as helping all of the twin moms I know. Even if I only help one person, it's worth it!
As of right now, outside moms I have met through Mothers of Multiples groups, I know personally nine other moms of twins. Nine people! That's insane! And I know what most people's first assumption is; there must be some fertility help in play here. Nope. All nine sets are the product of God's good grace. Au naturale! Crazy isn't it?
I'm hoping to write about my past experiences, but a lot of the last two years is a bit hazy. So I'll focus instead on the present. Right now, we have lots of exciting/daunting events coming up. Potty training... This one scares me. There's so much out there and much of it is vague. So as we go through it, I'll be honest and share both successes and failures. Another HUGE change coming up is the arrival of baby girl. I'm due the end of Sept! I'm sure there will be a lot of life lessons that come with her too. But that's future Cari's problem.
If you have any specific questions, feel free to ask. I'm here to help!
I'm asked all the time about products we've found success with, schedules that work, and logistics in general. A few of my favorite/comical moments involve grocery shopping, feeding, hair cutting and taking them in public by myself. So I figured, now that life has normalized and I am a uber blessed stay at home mom, it's time to start writing down what I've experienced both for my future enjoyment as well as helping all of the twin moms I know. Even if I only help one person, it's worth it!
As of right now, outside moms I have met through Mothers of Multiples groups, I know personally nine other moms of twins. Nine people! That's insane! And I know what most people's first assumption is; there must be some fertility help in play here. Nope. All nine sets are the product of God's good grace. Au naturale! Crazy isn't it?
I'm hoping to write about my past experiences, but a lot of the last two years is a bit hazy. So I'll focus instead on the present. Right now, we have lots of exciting/daunting events coming up. Potty training... This one scares me. There's so much out there and much of it is vague. So as we go through it, I'll be honest and share both successes and failures. Another HUGE change coming up is the arrival of baby girl. I'm due the end of Sept! I'm sure there will be a lot of life lessons that come with her too. But that's future Cari's problem.
If you have any specific questions, feel free to ask. I'm here to help!
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